→ Anonymous whispered : Hello micho senpai, I have something to confess. I still have feelings for my ex that I've been in an LDR with. He lives in Cali and I'm from Canada. For the past year we have never spoken/contacted each other, but I have been stalking him on tumblr. I finally mustered up the courage to message him and ask how he's been doing (in hopes of rekindling a friendship, cause I'm lonely). But oh lord jeesus I feel like burying myself on the ground and never coming back up. I don't think he was happy to

I don’t think he was happy to talk to me again, and was pretty annoyed. He stopped answering my asks and I feel so embarrassed. I want to delete my tumblr so I can just erase that mistake and disappear from his life, but I’ve made many friends on here. Am I just being a wuss by “running” away from him and should man up? Halp Q.Q

So sometimes we gotta asks ourselves, do we want some tea? Okay, that’s not the real question at hand. But this question, eh, I dunno what are the right words to describe this question.

Should you leave tumblr because your ex doesn’t like you and ignores you? No. Should you leave tumblr because it’s a toxic place and people are bullying you? Yes.

See the difference? 

Gurl, listen up. This guy or whatever, clearly he doesn’t want anything to do with you. At all. Tough shit. But at the same time, why you be still hung over someone who clearly isn’t interested in you in anyway? 

Gotta stand up for yourself, y’know? Raise that chin up. If you’re lonely, look for friendship/companionship somewhere else, take those emotions far far away from exes and boyfriends, etc. 

There is no running away involved, he is ignoring you. Simply just move on with your life, write some deep ass depressing posts, then move on. That’s it. Your friends are there for you, running away is just a really dumb thing to do, deleting your tumblr is another dumb thing to do.

We all make mistakes, no biggie. But really as cliche as this is, it’s the mistakes that make us grow stronger. If you really want to disappear from his life, just do what I do, unfollow him from tumblr, delete him from any social network site you have him on, unfriend him, delete him off Skype, etc. That simple. 

If you’re hardcore you can just install this thing where you block his URL and stuff on your computer, so when you have the urge to stalk him, even your computer won’t let you. 

That’s all the advice I can offer. :)